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[quote=Anonymous]My sister is like this, even though she's a size 5/6 and used to be an 18/20. She comments on it ALL.THE.TIME. Luckily this is a sister relationship and not a marriage, but I said to her, "look, you're in great shape. you look awesome. I'm telling you this because I am no longer going to respond to the constant 'I'm fat' remarks because I really truly believe what I just said, and because I don't think it is healthy for YOU to feel this way. I wish you'd work on seeing yourself as others see you." Now I follow up and don't respond/change the subject on her. She's not fat. I can't help her to think that she is OR isn't. It is SO difficult for both parties. I'm sorry OP. Glad you're trying.[/quote]
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