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[quote=Anonymous]This might start with getting her siblings to agree to a new plan of attack with their father. A huge part of the problem is that if your wife stops her part in all this, her siblings will be really resentful. So your DW will have to deal with an unhappy father, but also unhappy siblings. They all need to agree to stop their part in the dysfunction. However. You don't say if your wife thinks this is a problem or not. When you talk to her, don't use "you always" statements. Say things like "when you xyz I feel abc". That's key to keeping people from immediately getting defensive.[/quote]
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