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[quote=Anonymous]My dad is in town. We have basically no relationship. We see each other maybe once a year at most and do not speak between those visits. And even during those visits we barely interact with  each other because it's awkward and there's nothing to talk about. He has held no interest in my life whatsoever and our relationship has been like this for the last 11 years or so and frankly I just don't want to bother anymore with the play-nice-act. It's painful to be even fake friendly whenever I am forced to interact with him. Maybe it's because I'm just getting older (30) and am more secure in my life and the relationships I do have and really don't want or have to bother with hurtful people. I think it's unfair that he feels he can just insert himself into our lives for a few hours whenever he chooses to do so. I just really don't care about him anymore to be honest.

But he's in town for the week and went to see my sister and her kids yesterday and she "warned" me that he's planning on visiting me today or tomorrow. Is it messed up if I just totally ignore his call or text? I'm pregnant and especially now I don't feel like dealing with him or him seeing me during such a vulnerable time, if that makes sense. [/quote]

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