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[quote=Anonymous]Consult with an attorney. Get your own financial house in order (know your assets and debts, create a budget for living apart), get a job (if you don't have one), start thinking about a separation plan (where you will love, what the physical custody arrangement will look like--your attorney should help you with the legal aspects). Find a family therapist for your kids. Then once you have all these things ready, tell him. Once you two have agreed on separation, tell the kids, and then move quickly while they are with grandparents or at school or otherwise not there to watch mom or dad move out. Be 100 percent sure of what you are doing before you tell your kids. Then therapy. Because it's really hard for kids to process "I just don't love him," and you don't want this to mess up their future relationships.[/quote]
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