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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What would you be offering her if you contacted her? Do you still have some of his ashes? Do you still have her belongings. If she really was/is grieving that badly, it would be very selfish to reach out solely for your own peace and satisfaction. Don't reopen the wound of how you treated her without making some kind of conciliatory effort.[/quote] This. The way you treated her is pretty disgusting. Don't make it worse unless you are willing tomake it better first. [/quote] OP here and I guess you are probably right. It was just really hard right after his death and I guess we just thought that if she had meant so much to him why hadn't he told us. I had a pretty steady relationship with him and he NEVER mentioned her. On top of that he was dead for 5 days until my uncle found him. If they were so close why wasn't she there? [/quote]
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