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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would say your attitude is the problem.  If you really, truly don't feel like you have anything to offer but your body, that is what you will project.  You make your own reality.  Be interesting and involved in other ways, and men will want you for other reasons too.  Don't be afraid to have a personality.  If it seems like you don't have one, why would they want to talk or get to know you?  Just go for the goods.

I'm sure you have more to offer and more ways you could be interesting.   Talk about it.  Show it.  Have an opinion.[/quote]

This.  Note, I'm a woman who took years to build confidence and realize I have something to offer.  I wonder if the OP was taught by a conservative father that men only want sex from her?  I feel like my dad was trying to raise me well and teach me, but ended up doing more harm than good.  It is like I simply accepted that men will only value me for sex and that no man could possibly want to get to know me. Luckily, I moved past this and now have a healthy self esteem and loving husband.  I'm sure it is hard to raise daughters but I do know I won't repeat those mistakes.  [/quote]

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