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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have been with [b]my boyfriend [/b]for 5 years and we have a 3 year old child.  We are both in our mid-twenties and have been living together for 3 years.  The biggest problem I have with him is that he acts like he can't do anything for himself.  It's like he can't handle his business.  For example, if it comes to needing to call XYZ Business to find out about their services, he asks me to do it.  If he needs to go buy something in particular, he asks me to call around to stores to see if they have it.  I don't understand why he can't do things on his own.  He works at a job where he cannot easily use his computer or phone to take care of personal business.  At my job, I can use my time at anytime to take care of personal business.  I understand that I have more time to take care of things, but I feel like he also needs to be more assertive in taking care of his business and handling things like a man.  Do you think I should bring this up to him?  Any thoughts?  [/quote]

That's not a spouse.  Get married if you want to call him your spouse.  He doesn't do anything for himself b/c he doesn't have to.  Quit being a doormat and tell him HE needs to get off of his lazy ass and do this stuff.  Why do women make babies WITH babies?[/quote]

My goodness - sorry for the wrong choice of words.  Is it that serious? Spouse, boyfriend, partner, idgaf.  I don't see the big deal...[/quote]

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