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Reply to "S/O what kind of woman neglects the physical and emotional needs of her spouse"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What kind of ADULT prioritizes having sex with someone they're not married to over figuring out what's wrong with their marriage?[/quote] Here's what annoys me to no end about this response to the situation: [b]there is a presumption that if the cut-off spouse merely tried to "figure it out" there would be a resolution[/b] (they'd get sex, affection, emotional intimacy again). That's a completely false premise. Many spouses do not feel obligated to "work out" the issue: whoever is desiring of less [sex|affection|intimacy], is basically already getting all their needs met...they can just stonewall and ignore the partner left wanting, more or less indefinitely. I think the original question is fair: what kind of person thinks it's ok to make a promise - a commitment - to another person and then just neglect them and walk away from it. Staying in the same house and constantly rejecting them is walking away from their commitment. Or did you mean "divorce them" when you said "figure out what is wrong"? Maybe I misunderstood that part.[/quote]
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