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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yep, I imagine I will be.

But what kind of ADULT blames someone else for their marriage failings instead of talking with and improving things with their spouse?

It's easy to make excuses (kids, tired, etc.). It's hard to pay the piper. And the sad thing is, when it comes to pay, these folks never take responsibility for their own part in their marriage falling apart. [/quote]

Sounds like you're projecting a bit, OP.

So basically you're saying if someone doesn't have sex with their spouse, it's their fault if the spouse cheats.[/quote]

Nope. No projecting, just tired of seeing the women vilified (eg. The FB thread, the "what kind of woman" thread). The women in these cases aren't the problem. If your man can't keep it in his pants, you have a man problem or a relationship problem. Time to make changes in one of them. Unfortunately, most of the women on these boards refuse to accept responsibility for their own shortcomings.

It takes very little empathy to understand that most men feel loved through sex. But apparently it's easier to blame the temptress, rather than just have sex (or show loving, caring behaviours) to the person that you married. Or even talk to them openly and honestly about it. [/quote]

JesusChrist. Enough with this myth. Men in happy marriages with plenty of sex cheat, too. Stop assuming that the wife doesn't put out.[/quote]

But then is it the other woman's fault? [/quote]

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