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[quote=Anonymous]11:02 here! I knew it! First, aahhhhhhhhh! It's so frustrating. Know that deep down, your bf will always, always have an alliance with his mom. He'll always take her side and likely is afraid to stand up to her. In my marriage, I've shut my MIL out so much at I have virtually no interaction with her, except for family gatherings, etc. She rules her family with an iron fist and expects compliance. I'm an adult with my own mother and have a rebellious nature; the more I'm told to do something, the more I rebel. I do not need another mother, more advice, more demands. I say all this to say that once you open the discussion with your bf and if he begins or completely cuts the apron strings, expect that you will set up a new dynamic: good (his mom) vs. evil (you). YOU will be the one who changed this mother and son relationship, YOU took him away, YOU are controlling and YOU broke up the family. [/quote]
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