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[quote=Anonymous]OP, Alaska is beautiful and I'd be very upset if my spouse refused to "bring me" there. First, you are expecting your husband to stay home and be a good boy, take care of the house, and presumably have no female companionship while you're gone. You are also dictating to him where and when you will bring your son. If you divorce, (and I would over this action) forget all about him playing nice. The next event you care about may be on his weekend, a weekend that he does not have to change to accomidate you. He also does not have to agree to the two of you renting an apartment to rotate through. Why would he if you have so little regard for him? The law is on his side if he tells you he wants to sell the house and split all assets. The law won't care about touchy feely stuff or what you want. I'd suggest the two of you make up. I think you can if you are willing to still be linked with property. If he won't put out, and/or won't spend time with you as a couple and with your son as a family unit, then divorce. But, you are the one casting stones here and you need to stop. Whatever happens, you are setting a strong precedient with your behavior, one that will be done to you and which you won't like. Remember the addage that if you can do it to someone, someone can do it to you. Think about if this is how you want to be treated. And, I agree with the poster that whatever you do, don't bring your issues to your sister's wedding. I kind of think you may want to still be the center of attention, after all you were married first and had a child first, and now you may be divorced first, so what better way to remain in the spotlight by not bringing your husband.[/quote]

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