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[quote=Anonymous]My parents are divorced, so it makes it easier. I have cut off all communication with my father. Once I had children I lost all patience with his narcissism. I'm completely at peace with this and much happier now that I've let him go. I didn't choose to be born so I don't have to tolerate his toxicity. my mother is not ideal. She has many shortcomings and we certainly don't have a traditional relationship. I don't think she should have had children.as she never really related to us kids. However she is a broken person, herself a victim of severe childhood abuses, so she really doesn't know how to act properly in a family. Because I understand this, I approach her with compassion and not criticism. Also since I have my own family, my energy is focused on them. My parents are an old chapter in my life and my family represents a new beginning. I'm ve ru happy at home with my spouse and children so I really don't feel the urge to focus on my parents.[/quote]
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