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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thank you all--it is always good to not feel alone. I have shared with very few that he has a problem. It is very secret and embarrassing. I have considered al anon and probably need to start. It is so hard. He really wants to quit, but he does feel that a social drink here or there is ok. But I think it lead to the last 2 relapses. I don't think the relapses, at this point, affect the kids. He just acts a little weird after the kids are asleep, and wakes up later. He still parents good enough. It just affects our relationship. Somehow I feel too guilty ending a relationship over this. Yes, it is a crappy relationship with little trust and then less love. But we are an intact family, still communicate, have fun, no violence or poverty. I feel I need to keep working on it and so does he. But I do know alcoholism is full of relapse and seeing no light at the end is so so sad. [/quote]
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