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[quote=Anonymous]Maybe ranting here will make me feel better. My parents had a bitter informal separation  about 5 years ago but so far we as a family have kept it in the down low esp with the in-laws from my side due to culture and religion differences. After separation, my dad kept the family home while my siblings bought my mom a new home three hours away that my dad doesn't know about. They are both happy than they were when they were together and we are not worried to waking to news that my mom has been murdered or in ICU as a result of domestic violence.

My PIL are currently visiting my native country where my parents and some of my siblings live and they have expressed desire to meet my parents  and any other family member who might be available.  My brother's wife has suggested that we stage manage the visit by having my mother visit my dad's place the morning of to avoid "washing our dirty linen in public," but my mom feels that this is hypocrisy that she doesn't want to be part of. My mom however requested me to give her time to think of alternatives. I suggested they meet at a neutral place like at one of my brother's place but I could sense the uneasyness on my siblings side.  When I spoke to my  older sister yesterday I requested her to let me talk to my parents, my others siblings and my husband to find a common ground but my sister went ahead to tell my dad that my in-laws were in town already and they planned on visiting him in his house.  When I called my dad this morning I found that my sister's big mouth was also trying to arrange a date for the meeting. I so hate my sister right now. It was not in her place. And yes, I called her to tell her that but she doesn't see where she crossed the boundary. I feel like cutting her off!![/quote]

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