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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Any way you can get 4 nights down to 2 or 3 nights? Then, I'd plan fun activities for myself on the weekends that the in-laws are visiting - go see an old friend, spa, see a movie by yourself, even overnight trip to see friends far away. Your in-laws and DH can babysit. You may be surprised at how your DH becomes not so thrilled with the visits after you go away for the weekend a few times.[/quote] Yep. When someone visits that regularly, I think the protocol changes. They dont get treated like "honored guests". They get downgraded slightly, to more of "thanks for coming, but we are basically living our normal lives". I wouldnt pull out all the stops. I would be busy as hell. And certainly not help with any maintenance stuff. And if DH throws a hissy fit about it, then you put your foot down. just like he is doing about forcing you to accommodate his parents. [/quote]
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