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[quote=Anonymous]I would have your husband talk to his sister to find out her plans rather than leave it to your ILs to give you that information.

I would not book a rental without knowing all the details, pictures, price, etc. And I would not allude to the ILs that you are even considering renting without that information. Have you asked them for the owners contact information. I am assuming your ILs don't think you are going to send the contract and check to them to hand over to the owners so at some point you would have to get that information. Once you get the information, I wouldn't necessarily commit to booking if it doesn't work for you and your budget/needs.

It might be hard to completely switch your plans to go somewhere totally different this late. Assuming everyone expected this to be an annual trip, even though it is still January it is something to be bringing up over the summer/fall for the next years plans. Your ILs might be very hurt at what in their mind is last minute plans.

Since you have such a great relationship with them I would try to still make it work out with them for this year. I think you and your husband should spend the next few months discussing your future family vacations and what you want to do. Using your only vacation time for family visits and not creating a family vacation of your own might work for you or it might not work for you. If you decide you really want a week in the summer for just your family then you can start to plan that and adjust your time with your ILs.[/quote]

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