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Reply to "Served my DH with divorce papers and he was stunned"
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[quote=Anonymous]Unless she told her husband she planned to meet with a lawyer and file for divorce, then she blindsided him. And that's dumb. Super dumb. The smoothest and cheapest divorces are the ones where the two parties act like grown-ups, come to a mutual agreement to end the marriage, and commit to put the needs of the children above everything. The smartest approach is to try to figure out as much as you can without involving lawyers. If you can pretty much agree on most things, then you can involve a mediator to help move things along. Once both sides lawyer up, you are essentially benefitting the lawyers family and screwing yourselves/your family out of money (lots of it). This is just such a bad move...unless the op and her STBX were essentially living separate lives with separate accounts and separate assets. Even so, he can still launch a battle over essentially anything... How old is your lawyer, OP? [/quote]
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