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[quote=Anonymous]I'm going to weigh in and tell you that it's okay not to go. Would your mother really want you to spend your only financial cushion and lose your chance to move in order to see her for a couple of days? You both have had a loving relationship for many years (it sounds like) -- a couple of days one way or another will not change that. You really need to not judge yourself if you can't make it. I second the recommendation of Skype calls. I think if you asked your mother, she would want this to be one last gift to you -- the gift of not ruining your finances. For many elderly, one of their biggest worries is that their children will drive themselves to financial ruin by trying to take care of them.[/quote]
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