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Each individual thing by itself isn't a big deal but I feel like she has his ear and is going to cause problems for us in the future.  In the past when DH and I have disagreed about something she will tell him to "put his foot down." We make decisions together and while we might not always agree we need to make decisions without outside influences. FWIW while I am close to my parents I don't talk to them about major decisions until DH and I are on the same page because ultimately the decisions are ours to make, not theirs.

I'm sorry this is so long, we have had a lot of stress recently about some major decisions and I just feel like she's going to make sure to get her opinion in there when it should be just between DH and I.[/quote]

You don't have a MIL problem: you have a husband problem.  The only way she will learn about major decisions you make is when HE tells her. You need to shut that down right quick.  You and he are not on the same page about with whom you share intimate information. Get on the same page.[/quote]

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