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[quote=Anonymous]I didn't get divorced, but I did break off an engagement. It really wasn't the in-laws per-se, but coming to the realization that my fiance was kind of...a head case, and it was mostly due to her badly messed up family of origin, with which she was completely enmeshed. I was never going to rank even equal to them - they would always be more important and exert more influence...she would be married to them, not me, and I would have been subsumed into their entirely insane family. I wound up emailing her father and telling him that they were completely right about me: I was horrible, and just using her and that they should come get her. "you win, come get your prize". What an amazing relief. Yes, living with her drove me into therapy, and therapy helped me to see that I wasn't crazy, but I was living with people in the Fun House, and it was crazy-making. I strongly support the advice to get therapy. [/quote]
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