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[quote=Anonymous]My first step would be:  Therapy for the feelings and to have healthy boundaries.

My husband and his first wife divorced because of his inlaws.  His marriage had been fine until they came to live with them (from a different country).  And it destroyed the marriage.  But at its heart, it was because his first wife took their side and not his.   There's just no chance when that happens.

And while I'm grateful I got to meet him and have a family with him, I am still sad he ever went through a divorce, and for his kids from that first marriage.  I wouldn't wish it on anyone.   And if I were in that position, I'd try my best to kept the marriage together.    *This is all assuming your husband is at least willing to stand by you in these things, even if he's not doing it well right now.  If not, I'm sure it's incredibly hard to deal with.   But if there's a shot at staying together, deciding on and sticking to healthy boundaries with them will go a long way to bringing more peace in the household.   Good luck.[/quote]

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