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[quote=Anonymous]Anyone else have a spouse who hates hosting? He doesn't like the potential mess that more people create or the cost involved. He does enjoy going to other peoples' houses though. I try to explain that those invites will dry up if we never reciprocate, but he disagrees. I'm not even talking about big parties, but having just a few families over. If we do have anyone over and something happens, like a broken glass or something, then after the fact he blames me for having them come over. It creates anxiety for me so I don't end up inviting people over because I don't want to deal with his attitude if there is any mess. You can also see the annoyance on his face while the guests are here and it's uncomfortable for all involved. He's the type who starts cleaning up when guests are still eating. I see it as his issue that he needs to deal with, but I don't want him to get pissy at me so I avoid the situation. Any ways to get through to him if you've BTDT?[/quote]
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