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[quote=Anonymous]I have a condo that my mom, a hoarder, had a key to. I'd come into it and she had it stuffed with junk "for me." Once there were FIVE mattresses (I already have beds and mattresses) You have to change the lock, OP, and then keep "forgetting" to give them a key. If it's a condo, there's no issue of having anyone "check on it"--if it's a house, you must find someone to go by there. Since your parents live near by, I'm assuming you know someone else in the town. Pay them to do it. No emotional hassles with that one. There are many boundary issues here, but the one I've just spoken about is an actual physical boundary---your place; keep them out of it. As for the emotional and psychological boundary issues, keeping them out of your business is a good way to reduce those.[/quote]
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