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[quote=Incognita][quote=Anonymous]Yes, I think she is depressed and has been for a while. She's been on meds for years and has been to a couple therapists. I think she's better now but she's far from the person I married. I made a vow to be in it whether in sickness and in health...but I didn't imagine how depression could impact the whole family

FWIW, I got her a bracelet from Tiffany for Xmas. [/quote]

Pp was right it isn't about the presents.. It's about the sentiment. You shouldn't have to qualify what you got her last year or this. Even with your marriage on the rocks there should still be decency, a cake for your birthday, pajamas or something for Christmas. Your children, if old enough, will notice that she didn't give you anything.

22:20 has it right, if you or the marriage was a priority she should be willing to do these things, especially since you do them for her. IMO, it seems like she is sending a message that she doesn't care. You need to address this. If she is already checked out, you need to know and take your family and friends' advice.[/quote]

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