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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well, sure, I'll accept any negative to my overtures as a sign to cease and desist. I'm very cautious about being pushy about sex -- I want her to want me. But I think, to some degree, this plays into the not uncommon complaint from women that men these days "aren't real men."

My question is whether it's common for women to regard this sort of cautiousness about her desire for sex as unattractive passiveness or tentativeness. And, also -- if they like guys who come on strong -- whether they give out signals when they want a guy to come on strong. [/quote]

I would imagine that the signal you'd give for liking when someone comes on strong is to respond positively when someone comes on strong. My husband, for example, will grab me and kiss me as described in the other thread and he knows that I like that. He also knows that I am less likely to be immediately responsive if he does that while I am, for example, cooking dinner or working or sick or if we're in front of his parents or whatever.

If the only way you can think to express desire is to be sexually aggressive, you need to work on your technique. My husband, who I mentioned before is fairly dominant, was NOT like that with me early on. He was passionate and I definitely knew that he wanted me, but in the beginning, our sex life was pretty vanilla.[/quote]

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