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[quote=Anonymous]Get thee to a counselor, girlfriend, so you can figure out why you are still seeking your mother's approval and so you can learn to let go of the guilt! Your mother has a mental illness. You need to stop trying to deal with her as a rational person might. She's not rational. You need to identify what's healthy and stick to it. Take the emotion out of your decision making process. Does your mother have a healthy relationship with your DS? If not, don't go. If it is healthy, if she wants you to visit, it needs to be on your terms - and consider getting a hotel room at a place that has a pool. You can visit with your parents and then retreat to the hotel when you've had enough. The chain smoking would be enough to send me to a hotel. Hugs.[/quote]
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