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[quote=Anonymous]My sister seems to think because she has five children everyone should have to sacrifice to accommodate her family.   I have two children (4 months and 3) and our brother has a 8-year-old girl.  Her children range from two to nine, including her 4-year-old twins.  We all just arrived at our parents house and these are the things she has demanded.

-She and her DH get our parents master bedroom and her two oldest get their own bedroom.  Which means my brother and his daughter on in the living room on the couch.  Myself and DH and our infant in a twin bed.  My parents in the small guest bedroom with a crappy bed (my parents are in their 80s).  My son has to share a fold out couch in the basement with her twin boys.  I am sure he will end up on the floor because all of her children share her sense of entitlement.

-Refuse to help prepare food because she was tired from travel (she lives an hour from my parents, I live four hours away, my brother had to fly from California).  Sat on her butt as her three youngest ran wild and her husband watched Tv.

-Make my parents put their dog outside because she is "allergic" (they have two dogs).

-Complained that we weren't making ham, yet put no effort into getting or making a ham

-Went to get lunch, came back with cookies for her children.  Mine for mine or my brothers.  My brother had bought donuts for all the kids this morning.  When he called her out she got smug and said she has to worry about five children and my brother has more disposable cash.  My brother makes good money, but he is a single dad.  My sisters DH does really well, her oldest can afford to go to a high end private school and go on several big vacations a year.  I think she just does this to be spiteful.  My parents do favor my brothers daughter over her children, because they were very involved in her life as an infant and toddler.  They still all love and cherish all the grandkids.  My sister just can handle that it isn't all about her and her children.

I love my sister, but I don 't like her...  I hate being around her, I despise time with my family because she makes it unbearable. I wish I didn't feel the way i do about her, she just isn't a good person.  She is so selfish and entitled.  She uses my parents and then turns around and treats them poorly.

I am so glad we do Christmas with DH husband.  I want to invite my brother and parents to come but not her and her family.  I won't because that would make me worse than her but I feel so angry.[/quote]

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