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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]thanks guys. OP here; I think that's what it's all about: the comfort of knowing i could meet him. My husband basically argued that I would regret meeting him. [b]He said, as great and law-abiding as I am, I might internalize some of his bad-ness. I think DH was worried that this man might have a manipulative personality and I don't respond well to those. [/b] I also decided to request his death certificate to see if he died of something I should know about like cancer. He died so young 63 and I'd argue that by the looks of the mug-shots, had a quick decline. [/quote] People aren't infections. Your biodad isn't going to rub off on you and taint you. Your husband is responding emotionally and superstitiously. I am sorry for your loss. If you know any of his family, you could ask to meet some of them, instead of him. That might give you the information that you want. [/quote]
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