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[quote=Anonymous]OP again. I do invite my sister and she just thinks she doesn't have to visit because in the past we have gone out there since she lives near my parents. My parents come out here once a year.  The in-state ILs were coming like once a month, now maybe once every few months. The out of state ILs came like a year and a half after they moved, but then seemed miffed we hadn't visited them.  If it were up to me, I'd probably visit my family once a year at least, and if my parents and sister each visited once a year here, I'd be pretty content with that since I'd be seeing my own family 3x a year. As it is now, I only see my parents about once every 8 months to a year when they come here.  I wouldn't mind seeing the in state ILs 1x a year, and the out of state ILs once every 3-4 years.  Is it up to my husband to plan visiting his own family? He's not a planner and doesn't bring it up, but blames me for us not seeing his family.  He thinks him mentioning it once means I should just hop on a plane at the drop of a hat, when I need more notice and to be involved in the planning.  Also he wants us to just join in his mother's plans, instead of us making our own plans.[/quote]

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