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[quote=Anonymous]OP, what is it that you want? I'm asking this in a serious manner. If there are things you want to do, do them and bring the kids and your wife. Part of being a parent is your kids getting to know you and know what interests you. I also wonder if there are other issues going on with you. I can't understand why a stay at home mom needs a baby-sitter for "crunch time". I wouldn't feel guilty about leaving your wife home with three kids, I *would* feel guilty for leaving her at home while you go enjoy yourself. She married you to have a companion and to spend time with you. Why not reallocate the weekday sitter to a weekend sitter and use that time so you and your wife can do something together? Note that any volunteer activity will want more then you can give, but that may be a lesson you need to learn on by experience. The most bennifitial thing you can do is be a good husband and father. That means giving your family the opportunity to get to know you as a person, not just a worker bee and provider.[/quote]
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