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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]I had to spend the entire weekend with her[/quote] This is the most important sentence in your post. Why - -what do you mean you "had" to spend the entire weekend with her? Don't have her as an overnight guest in your house. When you visit family, stay in a hotel. You decide how much time to spend with her. Your husband can spend more - it's his sister - if he wants. You are in control of your own exposure to people you don't like.[/quote] Increasingly, I will opt out of about half of the times DH spends with her. But marriage involves compromise. For one, she is local. And when there is a family get together, I believe it can cause more harm to be noticeably absent. Also, I'm pretty sure I couldn't tell my husband that she's not welcome to stay overnight in our home. [/quote]
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