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[quote=Anonymous][quote=RHinVA][quote=Anonymous]So get divorced.  These posts are so stupid.  "He shoved me. He's a jerk.  He's always been tough to live with but now he's getting worse.  What do I do?!"  Is the answer really not obvious?[/quote]

No, it's really not obvious.  People in abusive relationships are living in an isolated bubble and they have no idea what "normal" is.  Coming here and talking about it is an excellent way to validate feelings, confirm suspicions, be genuinely surprised to find out that not all husbands are like that.  I'm glad that you've never had to experience what the Op has and you should appreciate it.  But please understand that people post because they need to, because they're afraid and they have no one else to turn to, not because they're stupid.[/quote]

OP here.  Yeah, I don't know if it is abusive or just seriously bad, but I do know that I don't feel like I can talk to anyone I know about it because I feel ashamed and I don't want to try to figure out how to walk back from it if we stay together. Obviously I love DH, and I do want to stay with him if we end the rudeness/aggression/jerkiness. But I have doubts whether that can happen.  The ironic part is that HE is dead set against splitting up because his parents' divorce traumatized him. [/quote]

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