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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ok, so here's my advice:

Stop expecting ANYTHING from her.  This way, you'll NEVER get let down.

Stop reaching out to her.

When she is around your daughter, you make the rules. PERIOD.

Invest your time and efforts into those people that actually matter. She doesn't.

Please remember that you cannot change her.  But you can change how you THINK about her and how you let your dislike for her effect you.

This is all coming from 6 years of not-so-great interactions with my MIL and SIL. I feel much better now that I have emotionally separated myself from them.  I'm polite and respectful and that's where it begins and ends. This "new" attitude has rescued me from feeling the way you do now.

And, FWIW, this might sound silly, but I prayed about it too.  I often found myself HATING them both and it was very taxing.  I believe the prayers helped as well.[/quote]

Wow, I had to double-check if I actually wrote this myself. Agree with everything this PP said.[/quote]

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