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Reply to "How do you avoid becoming "Friends" with the opposite sex"
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[quote=Anonymous]If my primary reason for wanting to spend time with a person is that I am sexually attracted to them, I do not spend any more time with them than is strictly required. If it's a colleague, I am pleasant but do not seek lunch encounters, do not ask to be staffed on projects with them, do not sit next to them at meetings, etc. If it's another parent at my child's school, I do not seek playdates with the family in question (unless we already have that kind of relationship, in which case, I would try to schedule playdates with multiple families, not have one-on-one time, etc.). Basically, I do not make up reasons to be around someone I secretly want to sleep with. I have not found this to be a problem. Maybe it's because I don't believe that people are 100% controlled by these urges that the OP finds problematic.[/quote]
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