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[quote=Anonymous]our parents had kids (us) when they were 35 and we had kids when we were 35, so yes, we worry about getting sandwiched by trying to take care of our own children, our retirement savings and at the same time take care of two sets of elderly parents. should be a complete shitshow. i may have to quit my job and career to take care of them all. no way we can pay for help. we take the philosophy that we should do everything we can (save, long term health policy, be healthy, downsize home later) in order to not be a burden on our children. caring for end-of-life 80 and 90 yo parents may jeopardize our savings and careers and ability to provide for our own children. [/quote]
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