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Reply to "This is the 1st time DH and I have had opposite views on something important/ personal value"
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[quote=Anonymous]And its making me sad. I don't really want to talk to anyone about it IRL but I feel like its just eating me inside :( We have been together for a long time, then married for 6 years. We had our first child last year. We are that kind of couple that people have asked "do you guys even fight?"- I would say, of course we disagree on things we are human, but the reality is that no, we don't really fight- we haven't had more than maybe 2-3 bigger arguments in 14 years. So this feels uncharted and I feel stupid for not being able to see down the line that we might disagree on this issue. But I guess its something you don't see as clearly (issue is about living near family) until priorities shift when having your own family. I always will put my DH and son first but I don't want it to be to the exclusion of everything else I care about. And I think that is probably where my life is headed eventually. [/quote]
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