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[quote=Anonymous] I understand you are venting, OP, so of course you are dredging up the past. I get it and I'm sorry. However, there is nothing you can do. You may be consciously angry towards your step-mother, but you must also be unconsciously angry towards your father. Don't forget he bears responsibility in all this. He must be attracted to this kind of woman, and please understand that on some level he must get something out of pairing with controlling women! So accept that their relationship is messed up and that your daughter and yourself are collateral damage. I grew up hearing my grandmother say right to my mother's face that different races should never marry - and my mother is white and my father is asian! Let go of the grandparent-grandchild dream bond, and move on with your life. [/quote]
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