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[quote=Anonymous]Get a lawyer. Where are you? If you can't agree then your lawyer and history to work out the separation agreement. If they can't then you mediate. STBXH and I are both lawyers, and I still got one. I'm planning to move out because I don't want to stay while the process plays out (he's a super-angry explosive person) but once I tell him (this week) then I'll tell him I've already rented something and does he want to go there or should I? It's big enough for me to take the kids if he really explodes, and then my lawyer will be in court that day or the next morning. He's great at angry a-holes, too, especially lawyers, but he is not licensed in VA, just MD and DC. That's why I asked where you are.

Don't think of it as winning it losing. Figure out what you want and then get a bulldog lawyer who will help you get that but wise enough to counsel you it's not about winning or losing; it's about what your goals are and how to achieve the most you can towards them. For realistic goal setting, I highly recommend the book Mom's House, Dad's House. You can get it on Amazon and other places (I got it on my Kindle-a great place to have books like this hidden).  Unless there are facts you aren't disclosing, such as you are a drunk who beats the kids, you will not "lose". Figure out what is best for you and the kids and then get a lawyer to help you achieve it.

Oh, and in the beginning I desperately wanted the house. Now I actually would rather be at my apartment for the fresh start, but I think disrupting the kids is a bad idea,so I am trying to see if I can stay in the house with them even though I don't want to. Nothing is forever, either. Good luck.[/quote]

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