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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] PP, this letter idea is appealing to me. Ive sent her a letter in the past that she ignored (reaching out after she stopped making contact) or even acknowledged. But a letter would allow me to say what needs to be said without even dealing with talking to her directly anymore. And she could process it however she processes it, but in the end, the words would be true.[/quote] Exactly. A letter doesn't give her the opportunity to cut you off, talk over you, hang up on you, whatever. Obviously you don't want anything out of your relationship with her, as she sounds absolutely miserable. Kudos for hanging in as long as you did. Send the note. Say what you have to say. The end. So end your time with friends and family you enjoy and be there with her only if she seeks help. Stop enabling her to put off seeking help. GL![/quote]
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