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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - he is as involved as he can be.  They were only married for two years, after first kid was born.  It was a mistake and she has always been extremely difficult to deal with.  She doesn't allow him to be involved past a certain point.  One kid is in high school and the other in middle school. He is definitely concerned, but overall I think men are able to compartmentalize emotions/issues when making decisions.    I forgot to add that most of his family lives in the DC area, another reason I feel bad, though you really can't be tied to a certain place because of this. We also have two young kids together.

I know that it will be best for us to live and work somewhere that we want to establish roots but I also know that I am going to be the scapegoat for the decision and will feel guilty leaving.  The other option is to wait until the kids graduate high school, but by then our kids will be older and it will be harder to move them from their elementary school and life here.[/quote]

How does he have a kid in high school and a kid in middle school and yet was divorced two years after the first kid?  Did they have second child after divorce?  It was a mistake twice?

She might be difficult but he clearly didn't want to put up a fight either.  He had legal rights.  Period.  Lots of people make this decision but don't make up bullshit excuses for him.  It sucks for those kids.  And don't think they don't get it.[/quote]

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