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[quote=Anonymous]Did she ask for a vacay together or did you come up with that yourself? Either way, no need to invite your ILs on your vacation. Now that your baby is a bit older, have an itinerary set for when she comes to visit. Go out for manicures and brunch with your friends so she can babysit and get special bonding time (assuming you trust her, even if you don't like her, and she's happy to babysit - my parents practically beg me for alone time with the baby when they come to visit). Get some passes to baby music classes for your MIL to take baby to while you get some alone time. Basically break up the party - either you get out of the house once a day or she and baby go off on their own everyday while she visits. Don't sit around idley. Let her know ahead of time that plan on making her visit useful and then use that extra set of hands to get a project done or just get in a few extra yoga classes that week.[/quote]
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