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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is he OCD, or anxious, or gay? His constant cleaning with podcasts seems like a way to hide from you - it doesn't seem like it's really about the cleaning. Does he have any leisure activities he enjoys that you could join him in? I really really think you guys should do couples coumseling. Good luck![/quote]

I wondered this too. He is trying to avoid connecting with you, literally and figuratively. Has it always been this way, or is this a marked change? How long were you together before you got married and what was your relationship like? Also - how have you addressed this with him in the past? If he explodes in anger when you tell him you are lonely and sad and miss him then that's a real problem that can't be swept under the rug. And it's just not fair because you literally have no voice in this relationship. Perhaps he shows his love in different ways than you do but that doesn't mean you must accept no sex, no intimacy, no conversation simply because he keeps your household running and works hard - that's a trap.
OP, was your relationship every emotionally close and sexual?[/quote]

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