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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here- 
I have brought it up exactly how the PP suggested. I was very calm, respectful and non-confrontational about it, but he immediately jumps to being extremely defensive & acting like I'm some crazy, control-freak girlfriend for feeling this way. I just wanted to see if I really am over reacting, or if others would feel hurt as well.[/quote]

You have your answer. If he told you he was working 7 days a week for the next 2 months because it's a temporary thing and an opportunity he can't miss, then fine. But this isn't what was communicated to you. And the defensiveness and accusing you of being a control-freak is not how you respond to someone you want to get back together with.

Move on. This relationship is cooked. [/quote]

Relationships, even marriages, take work. If one person is not there, it cannot work. Dump him and move on. He will not change because he doesn't see there is a problem. Just imagine you are in labor and he is not there. You raise your kids and he is not there. So find someone who WILL be there.[/quote]

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