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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Text her back:

I was upset that you found my daughter's accident funny, and I am angry that you did not follow through on your promise to repay the money for your dog's surgery. [/quote]

You left out "I will no longer enable you so please do not ask me for money again."[/quote]

Type these sentences exactly.  Then, do not engage with her. If she calls, let it go to voicemail and listen later.

Notice what others in your family have done--they've set boundaries and stopped engaging with her. Follow their example. If you have a problem such as your child being in an accident, do NOT call her. Find others to support you. Again, NO ENGAGEMENT. [/quote]

Listen to the above posters. They are right. When she calls, do not answer or if you do answer and she asks for money tell her you are still waiting for her to pay back what she owes you. Stop lending her money. She pushes you hard for it because you are a sucker. Stop being a sucker.[/quote]

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