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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here,
The problem is we got together under the pretense that we'd be able to spend quality time together and work on strengthening our relationship. This was a mutual agreement. He then turns around, negates that agreement and gets a second job which will bring him to a nearly 60 hour work-week that doesn't leave much time for patching up a relationship.[/quote]

So then ask him and state exactly what you wrote here:

"Larlo, when we got back together, my understanding was that we would focus on spending more time together and strengthening our relationship. You then accepted a job which now means you are working about 60 hours a week. Can you explain how we are supposed to spend quality time together if you're at work full-time 7 days a week?

Then sit and listen. If his answer doesn't satisfy you, then say, "It looks like we have different understandings of how this relationship was supposed to work. I love you and care for you deeply. However, I can't be in a relationship with you right now. I wish you well." [/quote]

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