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[quote=Incognita]I can see why you would be hurt OP. Maybe I'm being a little optimistic here, but you say you don't think you really need money, on the other hand you guys rekindled a relationship and have been stronger since. What I am seeing in between the lines is maybe your boyfriend has a plan that he came to on his own.. Sucky yes, but bear with me. Maybe he wants more for you, or you as a couple.

I've seen this a few times with friends, break up, get back together and soon after a big change; engagement, getting a place together, or something similar. Maybe your bf is thinking of something to make you see how serious he is, to see how big of a priority he is to you this time around, and it will take more financially than he can spare on current earnings.  Maybe, this weekend job is a short term solution to this goal.

I'm not trying to get your hopes up for an engagement or anything, but just giving some insight on what I've seen with friends. For all you know this may not be a selfish decision at all. I say try not to be too hurt or resentful about this, tell him how you feel without making him feel too guilty, because after-all you don't know his intentions at the moment. And most importantly express the things that will make you feel connected and intimate when he is gone so much. For example, that you would like him to text/call/email more often, or to make the time you do have together quality time, not just passively watching tv in the same room etc. [/quote]

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