Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Family Relationships
Reply to "Thinking of cutting off ex-ILs"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. All three of us go to family gatherings. Yes, it's odd that I hang out with my ex and ILs, but it worked for a while My daughter is 12. The part that is going to suck is not being with my daughter on major holidays. I have no intention of going back on our every other holiday agreement. [/quote] You're angry with your SIL, so you're not going to hang out with your DD and ILs? If your ex is going to be there, I can understand why you wouldn't. However, the real problem is the argument you had with the SIL. Address this first and foremost b/f making decisions about other things. [i]Remember the trigger for this whole episode was your ex's rages.[/i] Also, your SIL may have meant that you're in a co-dependent relationship. You aren't responsible for your ex's rages, but there be unhealthy, repeat patterns that you can break. I'd see a therapist. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
