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[quote=Anonymous]Even after our split 10 years ago, we've all continued the kind of happy family routine with the ILs. My ex, daughter and me spend every other holiday with them. We've been pretty close over the years.

I went to my SIL a few months back for help dealing with ex's rage episodes, which has been a problem for a long time. She seemed supportive, but kind of turned on me. The final straw was her telling me that I needed to accept responsibility for my part in his abusive behavior. I haven't spoken to her since she said that. I've ignored her calls and declined invites for the last several months.

She texted me the other day to see if I'm upset with her. I told her how I feel. She's insisting it's a misunderstanding, or that I mistook something. This baffles me. How could she have meant that? She wants to get together to discuss, but I'm feeling kind of done. I don't want to try to fix it. There have been other things over the years. I find it hurtful when they assume I'm lying because they can't remember something.

Try to salvage this or accept that this is why exes don't spend holidays together? [/quote]

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