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Reply to "DWs: Do you sometimes pretend to be less interested in sex than you are?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Sometimes when I try to initiate sex, my wife acts like I'm kind of a nuisance and a horn dog, but when we go ahead and have sex in these situations, she seems to enjoy it every bit as much as I do. It seems like there are societal pressures on women not to advertise that they're interested in sex -- so as not to be labeled as a slut or because good girls don't do that or whatever. I think my wife has internalized some of that and has a default resistance built in. Any of the dcum wives out there have a "default no" even if you'd kind of like to have sex? Now, don't get me wrong -- sometimes she's just completely not into it and my advances are not well received. And, other times, my advances are enthusiastically received. But, generally it's in this middle ground. And, at times, the "no means no" I've internalized and her sort of "default no" probably results in us not having sex when we both would have enjoyed it. [/quote]
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