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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=jsteele]We already created both TTC and Infertility. Both are among the least used forums. I don't think we can justify further divisions. Perhaps the Infertility folks can just learn to get along? I really don't understand why being empathic would cause offense.

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Well, go check out some of the recent threads.  If you are experiencing secondary infertility and dare to express empathy to someone with primary, you are attacked.  I should know better - it's par for the course for the mean girls of DCUM.  But it's sad, because it means your forum is practically useless for anyone who is seeking support and understanding.  [/quote]

Disagree. It's not the "mean girls" -- it's people who are suffering from primary infertility telling you that your comments hurt them. If you don't want to hear that , it's on you. It wouldn't kill you to be a little sensitive and to listen to others.

Jeff, some people find it difficult when someone who has living children says that their situation is the same as someone who has no living children. That's all. [/quote]

By the way, I just have to go back and suggest that you read what I actually wrote.  I NEVER SAID MY SITUATION WAS THE SAME.  EVER.  The fact that you insist that I did is on you, and suggests far more about you than it does about me.  You're certainly one to talk about insensitivity.[/quote]

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